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I am a lifelong student of consciousness. This podcast is about my transition in consciousness. I share a perspective that is both highly subjective yet contains numerous practical and mechanical tools that can be used by anyone who's looking for change. 

You may have seen my former video podcast, Beach Walks with Rox, which I began in February, 2006. In the Transition is a deeper, more detailed exploration of what I used to call "the Beach Walks Philosophy."

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in the transition with rox

Feb 15, 2019

In today’s episode, I am embedding a copy of a talk I gave in Feb 2017 on Maui at a live event for Valentine’s Day. The overall theme was how do we have a more conscious approach to love - both individually and in the community? 

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the concept as part of my personal process in learning about codependency. I also came to discover that the advice John Lennon has been giving us all these years might be actually be mis-directed.

Show Notes:

  • Love is not the answer. 
  • Love is too confusing and means so many things to different people.
  • Why taint the lusciousness of love by trying to love your enemies?
  • Instead, practice Acceptance.
  • What if we are here to experience separateness, not unity?


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