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I am a lifelong student of consciousness. This podcast is about my transition in consciousness. I share a perspective that is both highly subjective yet contains numerous practical and mechanical tools that can be used by anyone who's looking for change. 

You may have seen my former video podcast, Beach Walks with Rox, which I began in February, 2006. In the Transition is a deeper, more detailed exploration of what I used to call "the Beach Walks Philosophy."

Cover of The Three YousI invite you to download my eBook, called The Three You's. It's part of the framework I use in the Transition and you can use code PODCAST to get a free copy. It's a short read that can have a lasting impression on your own consciousness journey.

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in the transition with rox

Jan 13, 2019

In today’s episode, I’m going to attempt to answer a common question: Why did God let this happen? By asking a different question: What if God doesn’t owe us anything? What if we’re here by mutual agreement with God, to have amazing and unexpected experiences? Let's figure out how to have an expanded version of Spirit, God, Higher Power, that supports each of us in all we do, have, feel, and experience.


Show Notes:

  • Comparing traditional religion to a modern view of "godness" and spirituality.
  • Learn a new explanation for "when bad things happen to good people."
  • How labeling things good and bad or right and wrong can increase suffering and confusion.
  • What it can mean to truly believe we are souls having a human experience.
  • Several quotes in support of using difficult experiences to discover more of our true selves.

So what if this Godness is more like a cheerleader than a helicopter parent, an energy who supports us humans in trying anything we want, regardless of the outcome?

What if this Godness respects our humanity to the fullest and knows with 100% certainty that even if we face death, the most final act, that we all will face, that we will then return to the divine and we can incarnate and try again?

What if this Godness supports our complete and total freedom to explore the depths of who we are and what we want to try?

What if this Godness considers nothing a failure but instead just another outcome?

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And remember, none of this matters! Your most courageous act may be unconditional self-acceptance.

The full transcript is available on my website.